Choir for Beginners: Common Myths That Put Adults Off Singing
If you have ever thought about singing in a choir but talked yourself out of it, you are not alone. We meet so many adults at Encore Choirs who say they have always loved music but believed choirs were not for them. Often it comes down to a few common myths that can feel very real, especially if you have not sung since school.
So let us gently bust those myths and show you what singing with us is really like. If you are curious about choir for beginners, this is for you.
Myth one: I cannot sing
This is the biggest one. Many adults believe singing is a talent you either have or you do not. Usually this belief started with one comment years ago or a memory of being asked to mime in assembly.
At Encore, we believe everyone can sing. Singing is a skill, not a special gift reserved for a few. Our choir leaders teach everything by ear and guide you step by step. No one is put on the spot and no one is judged. Over time, confidence grows naturally. We see it happen every term.
Myth two: Choirs are only for confident performers
Some people imagine choirs as formal groups standing still, reading music and singing perfectly in harmony. That can feel intimidating if you are shy or new.
Our choirs are relaxed, friendly and informal. There is plenty of laughter, encouragement and shared moments of learning. You can stand where you feel comfortable, sing as loudly or quietly as you like and simply enjoy being part of the sound. Many of our members tell us choir is the one place they feel able to be themselves.
Myth three: I need to read music
This is one of the most common worries we hear. The good news is you do not need to read music at all to sing with Encore.
We teach songs by listening and repeating. Everything is broken down into small, manageable parts. Lyrics are provided and recordings are often shared to help you practise at home if you want to. Many members arrive convinced they cannot read music and leave wondering why they ever worried about it.
Myth four: Everyone else will be better than me
Walking into a room full of strangers can feel daunting, especially if you think everyone else knows what they are doing. In reality, many people in the room will be feeling exactly the same as you.
Encore Choirs are made up of adults of all ages and backgrounds. Some have sung before, others have not sung since school. What they share is a love of music and a willingness to give it a go. There is no competition and no pressure to be perfect. We celebrate progress, not perfection.
Myth five: I am too old to start singing
We hear this a lot and it always makes us smile. There is no age limit on singing. Voices change and develop throughout life, and singing can be started at any age.
Many of our members join later in life and say they wish they had done it sooner. Singing together can boost mood, improve breathing and create a real sense of belonging. It is never too late to try something new that brings joy.
Myth six: Choirs are serious and strict
If your image of choir includes long rehearsals and stern conductors, you may be pleasantly surprised by Encore. While we take care to help our members sound good, the focus is always on enjoyment.
Rehearsals are uplifting and social. We sing feel good songs and aim to leave everyone feeling lighter than when they arrived. There is structure, but it is gentle and supportive rather than rigid.
What choir for beginners really looks like at Encore
A typical Encore rehearsal starts with a warm welcome. We warm up together, have a chat and then dive into singing. Mistakes are part of learning and often part of the fun. You are never singled out and there is no audition at any stage.
Our choirs across Hampshire are inclusive and welcoming. You can come along on your own or with a friend. Many people make lasting friendships through choir and enjoy having something in the week that is just for them.
We also offer free taster sessions so you can try it out with no pressure. It is a great way to see if the vibe feels right for you. Most people leave smiling and surprised by how much they enjoyed it.
Why so many adults choose to join adult choir
Life can be busy and full of responsibilities. Singing in a choir gives you a regular moment to switch off and focus on something uplifting. It builds confidence gently and brings people together in a way that feels natural.
If you have been searching for a join adult choir experience that is friendly, relaxed and open to all abilities, Encore could be exactly what you are looking for.
Come and find your voice with us
At Encore, we believe everyone can sing. We are an inclusive, friendly and welcoming community of choirs across Hampshire, open to all abilities with no auditions and no need to read music. Whether you are looking to build confidence, make new friends or simply enjoy singing uplifting music, Encore is the perfect place to find your voice.
If you are curious, why not come along to a free taster session and see what it is like for yourself. Take that small step, sing a few notes and discover just how good it feels to sing together. Join us and let your singing journey begin.
